Most of what I do is cut using my laser. Also, each individual laser head that has multiple diodes will be different; some will be rectangular in shape, some will be more of a rounded square, and yet others are somewhere in between (I was lucky and my 30W setting has a kerf of about 0.18mm x 0.18mm, so I have one of the rounded square). The more diodes there are, the more likely the resulting beam will be larger. Anything past a single diode runs the risk of getting a rectangular output.
BTW, a 10W should be able to handle 3mm or less cutting, although it will be a bit slower than a higher powered laser and may take more than one pass. I did an experiment with my 30W using both 10W and 30W settings for some cut tests. A 30W laser is NOT 3 times as fast as a 10W. The larger beam effective diameter distributes the power over a larger area and that cuts down on effective cutting power. I found the 30W setting was just a litlte under 2 times as fast as the 10W setting.